If you’re struggling…from my friend


I’m being gentle with myself, giving myself time to heal. When my doctor said 10 weeks I thought on the 10th week I’d be back to my work-a-holic, Crazy super mom self. Nope turns out 10 weeks for the breaks to heal and 3 to 4 months for the soft tissue damage to heal. I love when friends just know how you’re feeling, you don’t have to say a word. My childhood friend sent this to me yesterday. She’s also the the friend who showed up when BB was so sick when she was 17. I’m thankful for her and my heart friend and my Bling friend and my sweet friend and my thoughtful friend and my generous friend and my funny friend and my Super Mom friend and my praying friend and my long suffering friend. She waits with me and cheers me on and says, ” You got this one, you can do this.” Yes yes I do. I’ve got you, all of you and I’m so very blessed and I’m so thankful for you and 

I love you to pieces with all my pieces. 😂😂😂😂😂

That was funny!! 🌸🌸🌸🌸😘😘😘😘

P.S. After reading this I thought of wow each of my friends has all these wonderful qualities I hope you know how much you inspire me! 

32 thoughts on “If you’re struggling…from my friend

  1. MM, I had no idea what you have been going through!! Geeze, on top of what you are dealing with your daughter. Oh Honey, you are in my prayers big time!!! Be easy on you. Be gentle on you. And KNOW KNOW KNOW you will heal all in good time. You can’t rush these things!!! BIG (((HUGS))) ❤

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    1. I love that! You know AmyRose I started blogging to share my journey to healing with my girl and also dealing with the loss of my Pa and this blog has been so healing in so many ways. I’m thankful for the beauty you share each day with us. I’m thankful for the love you show and for always having something good to give! BIG Hugs back to you! Thank you for sharing with me! ❤ Much love!

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  2. You Bling are my fabulous friend! I hope you realized that, I mentioned everyone of my friends by their wonderful qualities. You have all of them! I love you Bling! ❤

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    1. HI Erika….I don’t have many at all it’s the wonderful qualities of a few that have hand my hand while I’m walking through this rough part. It’s a beautiful thing to know there is someone there to listen to my crazy stuff. 😀

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    1. I agree with you! I think it’s so wonderful to have good friends. I used to keep my circle really small and I still do but I’ve learned that there are so many wonderful people here on WP like yourself. 🙂

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      1. Well, it depends on what day you see my hair, MM, because I change like the wind. Now it is light golden brown, with a wee bit of red highlights and a lot of blond highlights. I told the young woman who does my hair I LOVE the red but she went ahead and made me blond. LOL I’m not stopping her because what she does with my hair is magical. I’m so happy you like my pic and it makes you smile. That was taken in my backyard in front of the garden that is dedicated to my MIL. Sending Much Love to you and prayers that your daughter is getting well. ❤

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      2. Oh I love that share! It’s so beautiful! A garden dedicated for your MIL. I need to do that too! My MIL was my best friend! She cheered me on when there was no one I felt on my side. Isn’t tit amazing how hair color opens our eyes to new perspectives and way of taking in the world. Even maybe getting our sassy self out! 😀 LOL I’m always the same with my hair it’s always been blonde it when from platinum to darker then now I have a little white in the front again I think I’ll go with it! LOL ❤ sending a lot of love your way! 😀 ❤

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      3. The more I find “me” the more daring I become with my hair. And that garden dedicated to my MIL, her ashes are buried there. How she loved her little garden and so I created one just for her to remember her by. Much Love to you, dear friend! ❤

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  3. aaww – you got this my sweet dear friend. Healing takes time. We all want jump on the boat with full steam after a ‘recuperating period’. It takes time. But breathe – take care of you – and know that we are all here for you. Sending you major hogs and sloppy snout kisses. XOXO – Bacon

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    1. Gosh I know it. I had no idea. I’ve never been injured before this an entire new experience for me. I keep wanting to get up and go and when I do I realize I still can’t. Gosh! Thank you for what you said Bacon friend! I should have mentioned my Bacon friend xoxo lol

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  4. You will get better and stronger every day with the support of friends. Having recently extracted myself from a traumatising situation (I’m now back in the UK), I couldn’t have done it without the two friends I’m staying with until I move into the cottage I’ve bought on the Isle of Wight. Three cheers for FRIENDS. 😀 Take care. xx

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    1. Hip hip hooray! Wow being on your back is not a good thing at all. Being totally dependent on others to help was hard the first 2 weeks. Now I’m working 1/2 days and then working from bed the rest so I’m slowly slowly healing. I sat in a chair yesterday for 10 mins. Before I couldn’t sit at all. Wow you take care of yourself too I wish we didn’t have this in common but it’s so wonderful to know that we do! Take care of yourself too! xoxo

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    1. AWE thank you E. You are so kind. That is why I haven’t been online much. I still have the bug to share but I’ve noticed it zaps my energy so I’m channeling that energy to still do my job. My boss said he was thankful that I am so dedicated but truthfully I love my work. I’m so blessed to work for the company I do. I know that and thank God everyday for all of them. They have been such a huge support for me. Everyone jumped in and wanted to work on my magazine. It was so cute how they tried so hard to help. I proved to myself that I could let go and trust that everyone could do their job and I’m thankful for that so thankful! Hugs and love to you too! xoxo ❤

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      1. I’m sorry to hear that you are still struggling to get back to full health….Good that you are surrounded by such lovely people….Always thinking of you….Love and Hugs! ❤ ❤

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      2. OH gosh yes. I’m shocked about it actually. My doctor said you’re doing wonderful keep going. I said but you said 10 weeks and he said dear for the bone to heal they are still cracked and there is much tissue damage so it takes longer. Wow I don’t do injured well at all. I’m usually the one that helps everyone else. Love and hugs back to you ❤

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